Hypnotic Techniques for Dating Success

by Dr. Steve G. Jones, Ed.D., Clinical Hypnotherapist

Five techniques from hypnosis and NLP applied to dating — changing your self-talk, anchoring yourself to success, analog marking, direct suggestion and anchoring someone to you — with homework after each, and a closing chapter that ties them together.

60 pages6 chaptersHomework in every chapterPDF

What's in the book

One technique per chapter, each ending with homework to use it on a real date.

1Changing your Self-TalkBreaking the negative loop between conscious and subconscious mind, and what to say to yourself instead.p. 7

2Anchoring Yourself To SuccessInstalling an anchor to a peak state you can fire before any date.p. 16

3Analog MarkingEmbedding a suggestion in ordinary conversation.p. 27

4Direct SuggestionThe simplest technique in the book: telling someone what to do.p. 36

5Anchoring Someone To YouInstalling an anchor in someone else, so that they associate a good feeling with you.p. 42

6Tying It All TogetherThe techniques combined in one evening.p. 52

+Resourcesp. 57

How it works

How the book works:

HomeworkEvery chapter ends with a homework assignment: go out and use the technique on a real person before reading on.

Start with yourselfChapters 1 and 2 work on you before any technique is used on anyone else.

Same content as the audiobookThe audiobook of the same name is this material read by Dr. Steve, with the same homework.

Read a page from Chapter 1

Hypnotic Techniques for Dating SuccessPage 8

Changing your Self-Talk

It all starts with you. If you are in a situation where you are trying to accomplish something, you need to make sure you are talking to yourself in an appropriate manner. For example, if I am approaching any situation and I think to myself, I can't do this, I'm not good enough, I'm not up to the job, I'm not what I need to be. What is that going to do? That's going to send a signal in sort of a loop to my subconscious mind that I am not good enough.

So what do you need to do? Well, I'm not suggesting that you should lie to yourself per se, but in a sense, you need to. You need to break your pattern. You need to interrupt the pattern that you are already in. What you need to do is start talking positively about yourself. And this is whether you are trying to have dating success or you are trying to have job success. This is for anything you are trying to accomplish in your life.

The chapter continues for seven more pages and ends with the first homework.